Professional Matchmaking services
We don't just find you a date — we find you a partner who fits your life
Where Executive Search Meets Personal Matchmaking
Selective Search provides professional matchmaking services to accomplished, commitment-minded individuals across the nation. Discover how our approach to finding love is recognized as best-in-class.
Our commitment to excellence is validated by our clients and industry recognition. We maintain an A+ rating with the Better Business Bureau with zero complaints, a perfect 5.0 rating on Consumer Affairs, and a 4.9 out of 5-star Google rating. This third-party validation, combined with our 89% success rate, demonstrates why Selective Search has been trusted by accomplished professionals nationwide for nearly three decades.
Client Program
Selective Search clients retain our services through a premium, investment-level membership tailored to the scope and complexity of each search. Our concierge-caliber approach ensures that every introduction reflects the depth of that commitment — because results are a function of investment. For professionals who refuse to waste time on introductions without potential, the Client Program was built for you.
Candidate Program
Our candidate program is designed for high-caliber men and women who are ready for a long-term, committed relationship, but are not yet ready to invest in a client membership. This program is complimentary – no fees to join, no fees to match. However, as a candidate, our Matchmakers will only reach out to you when they have identified a two-way fit with one of our clients. You have nothing to lose and the love of your life to gain.
Selective Search members benefit from the fundamental features of our proven approach.
Proprietary Process
Modeled after proven Fortune 500 executive search methodologies combined with traditional matchmaking, our proprietary Meet Your Future process ensures no time is wasted in getting to know you, as well as identifying the most qualified matches. This proprietary process has been uniquely powerful in exclusive matchmaking, resulting in an 89% success rate, the leading success rate of any matchmaking firm or high-end dating services.
100% Confidential
Privacy is the foundation of Selective Search. Our clients and candidates lead busy, professional, and public lives. We place a premium on privacy and discretion. Your personal information will never be shared outside the scope of the search. Only Selective Search employees have access to your information and consent is required before sharing biographies or contact information with a potential match. From your first consultation to your happily ever after, our services are 100% confidential.
Dedicated Team
Members will work directly with a team of Matchmakers and researchers, and benefit from the full support of other professionals within the company who are collectively dedicated to helping you find love. Our Matchmakers work as a team to collaborate on searches and tactics, so that you can benefit from over 185 years of combined matchmaking experience.
100% Offline
Unlike other high-end dating services, your personal information is kept in strict confidence throughout the entire process, and is for internal use only. There are no public profiles, no swiping. Just hand-curated matches selected by your Matchmaker.
Expansive Network
Finding the right person often means looking beyond your existing world. Selective Search maintains a deep national network of commitment-minded singles and deploys a dedicated recruiting team to proactively identify and vet new candidates on an ongoing basis. The result: introductions you couldn’t have engineered on your own.
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